Family Christmas 2012
It is quite natural for family members to get together and celebrate Christmas together. And yet, we hear of so many families that are not able to do this either because of certain family dynamics, or simply because so many people are mobile and spread out to live in places that are far away from each other.
Less than two weeks ago, our family was spread out between Alberta, Ontario and Texas. So I realize what a blessing it has been for all of us to be able to come together here in Calgary to be with each other. It was so wonderful to come home on the 18th and be with my family after being away for two months. And seeing the decorated tree encouraged my heart to know we had entered into the Christmas season.
This particular Christmas tree has special meaning for us. When we were in Papua New Guinea years ago, a church in America sent this artificial tree to us so that we could have a Christmas tree in the village way out in the jungles of PNG. We decorated up the tree in the front lobby area of our house so children in the village could see it, and it became quite the center piece for many discussions with the people and the children.
We had kept many of our special ornaments with us that reminded us of previous Christmas times together. What a treat though, for us to have a tree from back home to be able to hang all our special decorations. And of course, as many parents do, we stayed up late on Christmas Eve to wrap up presents to surprise our boys the next morning.
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Even with all the gifts that seemed to multiply around the tree each year, we still made sure we had taught our boys the true message of Christmas, of Jesus who was born as a baby, but who would one day die for us and be raised as our Lord and Savior. We always tried to have special gifts for each other which we names as our “gold, frankincense and myrrh” gifts.
Now that our boys are young men (one is married and one is in the Canadian Army), we tend to buy less and less gifts and put the emphasis more on the message of Christmas and just being together. It was still nice to give gifts to each other, (for the very spirit of Christmas is that of giving), and it’s amazing to see how creative we can all be after we said, “Let’s not spend much on gifts this year.”
One thing we got this year to add to our Christmas tree was a special ornament. We had found this beautiful ornament of the nativity scene, placed within a small hand-crafted gourd. It has the family scene of Joseph, Mary and Baby Jesus, who are surrounded by the shepherds and the stable animals.
Just about any nativity scene touches my heart. But when we saw this scene carved and placed within the little painted gourd, it reminded us of the fact that Jesus came to earth for men and women of every culture. And gourds are something that we would associate with tropical countries, like that of Papua New Guinea, where this Christmas story needs to be shared with all the people who live on that tropical jungle island.
And that brings me back to my first thought, of how special it is to celebrate Christmas with one’s family. I am so thankful that I was able to return from my time down in Texas, and that our son in the military was able to get three weeks off for the Christmas break to come home to be with us.
We never know in this life when we will all be able to be together like this, now that we are all adults and leading very diverse lives. We have a very short time together, but we are trying to make the very most of these few weeks. It is my prayer that you too have been able to be reunited with family members this Christmas. And I pray that Jesus is the center of your family, just as He is the center of ours.
MERRY CHRISTMAS, AND MAY YOU HAVE A BLESSED AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!